Hello readers! Hope your day has, or is filled with lot’s of good vibes and positivity. Between my Thursday and Friday I went from being in the most negative mood ever to waking up the next morning feeling extremely rejuvenated. So what’s my secret?
Honestly I asked myself the same thing when I work up Friday morning. I looked at myself in the mirror, splashed my face with cold water and simply smiled at myself. Why do I feel so good when I went to sleep feeling like total crap? I had no emotional help from any other human being and nor did I indulge myself into any filmy things prior to falling asleep. How did this happen?
I think one thing I’ve learnt with time before living alone and currently living alone is to be okay to just be with yourself when your in public. I can spend an entire day with myself and be totally happy. I know in this world of chaos, technology and lot’s of stresses we always need someone to talk to, vent to and just tell everything to. But sometimes you have to talk to yourself and give yourself your own kind of advice. You have to be able to take walks alone, eat alone, shop alone, drive alone, and all the other things you would typically do with people.
To some this may sound very isolated, depressing or totally bonkers, but if you try it often, you will learn to feel something different in a good way and when you are with people you might end up creating a mental balance within yourself because now you are getting the best of both worlds.
I can’t deny the one person I definitely miss hanging out with on my day-to-day basis has to be my mom. But when I am alone all I think is, well she is too so its pretty much the only person I can call and bug and not think about her being busy which she probably is way more busier than me!
Hope you enjoyed this short ‘single living’ post. If you are enjoying these thoughts of mine leave a comment and tell me how you are able to relate or might try this piece of advice out!
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